If you found this blog and are reading it, it is probably because you decided to get married. Congratulations on saying yes. Golden congrats if you were the one who proposed – it takes a lot of courage to do that. Diamond congrats if you are a woman who proposed to your man, it takes triple courage to challenge the gender stereotypes. If you are a same sex couple and will get married, my platinum congrats and respect, you’re the bravest among us!